Stoicism

Don't Wrestle the River

Other people do not get to decide my inner state. A simple practice for responding to disregard without pretending it is acceptable.

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Am I Using My Ego, or Is It Using Me?

The quickest way to your own downfall is to stop examining yourself and start believing you're better than you are. A journal entry for me, and for my sons.

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The Line I Say to Myself

One sentence I repeat to myself keeps difficult people from running my day. Here's how a mantra works as a filter.

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Imagine Losing It, Then Look Again

Imagining the worst sounds pessimistic. For me, it's the practice that keeps me grateful for what I still have.

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What Epictetus Taught Me About Letting Go

Some people suffer twice. Once while doing the work, and again while worrying about the result. Here's what Epictetus taught me about focusing on what I can control.

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Don't Sweat the Small Stuff - I Disagree

Everyone says to let the little things go. I think that's wrong - here's why the small stuff is actually the big stuff in disguise.

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